var choice = GetRandom(1,13);
if (choice==1)
  document.write("<h2>Overcoming Infidelity, an Introduction</h2>Infidelity is a terrible tragedy that occurs in 60 to 80% of marriages in the US. As high as it is, the figure presents an element of hope when we consider that just under 50% of marriages end in divorce; a good number of marriages hit with infidelity are healed and the couples moves beyond the pain and into recovery.<br>... <a href='/getinformed/articles/overcominginfidelity.html'><b>More &gt;</b></a>");
else if (choice == 2)
  document.write("<h2>Making Demands in Marriage OR How to Destroy Your Love</h2>Demands are abuse. They are the first outward manifestation of a belief that we have the right to control what someone else does, or how they live. It is an internal attitude of rationalizing getting our own way at the expense of someone else.<br> ... <a href='/getinformed/articles/makingdemands.html'><b>More &gt;</b></a>");
else if (choice == 3)
  document.write("<h2>Ending the Affair</h2>Infidelity is a thoughtless, selfish, and cruel act. It is perhaps one of the most painful things we can go through as adults. And yet it is an incredible tribute to the resiliency of the human spirit that many can and do recover their marriages, going on to create a relationship that is loving, joyous, and fulfilling. So then the question is: How do we get from here to there? <br>... <a href='/getinformed/articles/endingaffair.html'><b>More &gt;</b></a>");
else if (choice == 4)
  document.write("<h2>Honesty in Marriage</h2>How well do you handle your spouse&#146;s honesty? Do you become upset, yell, threaten, or criticize when your partner shares difficult information? If so, then you are fostering dishonesty in your marriage.<br>... <a href='/getinformed/articles/honestyinmarriage.html'><b>More &gt;</b></a>");
else if (choice == 5)
  document.write("<h2>How to Make Your Time Together the BEST Time of Your Week</h2>So you've taken out the calendars and put your fifteen hours in.. In ink... and you&#146;re all set.  But before you rush out the door, here are a few suggestions to jump start your time.<br>... <a href='/getinformed/articles/timetogether.html'><b>More &gt;</b></a>");
else if (choice == 6)
  document.write("<h2>Steps That Are Essential for Recovery Following Infidelity</h2>If the marriage ends in divorce following an affair it is usually due to the couples&#146; inability to create a program for recovery. A full recovery addresses many issues but the overall focus is to change the conditions under which the affair occurred in the first place.<br>...<a href='/getinformed/articles/steps.html'><b>More &gt;</b></a>");
else if (choice == 7)
  document.write("<h2>Recovery - A Story</h2>Real recovery is possible. The steps to getting there are difficult and often times painful but the alternative is far more difficult and tragic. So what are those steps? Where does a couple begin to pick up the pieces of shattered love and trust? To answer those questions I&#146;ve decided to tell the story of a real couple who are working at recovering their marriage; doing all the right things, and struggling with the issues most couples face.<br>... <a href='/getinformed/articles/recovery.html'><b>More &gt;</b></a>");
else if (choice == 8)
  document.write("<h2>Tips for Negotiation</h2>...If we want to get the things we need in a way that guarantees we won&#146;t destroy our marriage in the process we need a new model. Insisting that we get our way isn&#146;t going to do the trick! In order to successfully protect the marriage and the love you have for each other, you must make all your decisions in a way that is good for both of you at the same time.<br>... <a href='/getinformed/articles/negotiation.html'><b>More &gt;</b></a>");
else if (choice == 9)
  document.write("<h2>Questions to Ask Before You Hire a Marriage Counselor or Coach</h2>You should ask these questions regardless of the person&#146;s education, title, reputation or name.  It&#146;s your marriage, treat it with care! <br><a href='/getinformed/articles/questionsforcandc.html'><b>More &gt;</b></a>");
else if (choice == 10)
  document.write("<h2>The Myth of Unconditional Love</h2>Many of us want to believe in unconditional love... We insist that &#146;If you really loved me, you would accept me just the way I am.&#146; We want to believe love will last no matter what we do. A closer look at the dynamics of romantic relationships reveals a different story.<br>... <a href='/getinformed/articles/mythunconditionallove.html'><b>More &gt;</b></a>");
else if (choice == 11)
  document.write("<h2>Unconditional Love vs. Negotiation in Marriage</h2>Unconditional love. Although that phrase is used too freely in the counseling, and self help arenas, as well as just common chitchat, it really is a misnomer... The problem with that concept... is that we each have two sides to our psychological make up. There is the altruistic side that thrives on doing things for others, and there is the side that watches out for our best interests.<br>... <a href='/getinformed/articles/lovevneg.html'><b>More &gt;</b></a>");
else if (choice == 12)
  document.write("<h2>Love Takes Time</h2>Aging parents, community organizations, volunteer activities, friends, and solo recreations are just a few of the myriad demands on your time. Does this sound like your life? If it does, you&#146;re not alone. It becomes second nature to put off or ignore the important in favor of the urgent. We believe, erroneously, that &quot;someday&quot; we&#146;ll have the time to spend long hours with our spouses, conversing, laughing, having a great sex life.<br>... <a href='/getinformed/articles/lovetakestime.html'><b>More &gt;</b></a>");
else if (choice == 13)
  document.write("<h2>Infidelity - How It Happens</h2>Time after time I have someone call me in a panic because their spouse has said &quot;I&#146;m no longer in love with you.&quot; My first thought and my initial exploration is &quot;If they&#146;re not in love with you, then who are they in love with? Who is the other man or woman?&quot; I ask questions about who the spouse is spending time with, talking about, talking to, and so on. I suggest that it&#146;s likely there is an emotional affair taking place and perhaps a physical affair has developed.<br>... <a href='http://www.symcinc.com/getinformed/articles/infhowithappens.html'><b>More &gt;</b></a>");